I am 33 yrs old working as a medical representative in Calcutta in a mnc pharma company where my own sister’s husband is the Country Head.
But I am having these problems-
1) Firstly, even after having exposure to this field for the last 5 years I have disliking for the job as i am not getting any job-satisfaction from the beginning but due to family pressure & economic constraints I had to continue.(This is my 2nd company,in my earlier company which is also an Indian mnc.There also my brother-in-law was the General Manager ,next to Vice-President but here he is at the top position, after the owner). So you can understand he has considerable power to influence my life and parents & he has.
2) Many even my parents don’t think I have any credit.
3)I am having lots of altercations & even sometimes violence with my parents as my parents have been misbehaving with me for more than 8 years.Their reason is I am a good -for- nothing fellow as I have wasted all their money in various courses like I left a full time residential MBA outside my state even after all the semester fees have been paid & then cam back in 2003,then I left lots of computer courses(details will take make these long so I refrain here) spread all over city.
They and my sister & many guys and gals whom I share my problem with ,point out that, I couldn’t make any friends or complete any courses b’coz of certain psychological problem(s).But i protested to these all along
BTW, I am a teetotaler.
2)I feel they ( my parents ,sister & brother-in-law ) have conspired with the help of astrologers & politicians to make me unemployed and after a certain age like 35 if i fail to serve them well as a slave in their company they will throw me out and since I am a bachelor, they will take use of my depression state of mind and prove me mad!! This way my parents will take their revenge of whatever i have done to them or wasted their money. Also they will save their money they wud have to invest on me had i get married. Also they can easily transfer some property right to my sister.
I amreally confused & till now don’t know their exact motive or whther really my parents are bad.
But every time I argue with my father that i will search a new job leaving these present one ,my mother mocks me saying I will never be able to bag any other job in my life & i have to die a beggar.

** And when she says these she says with lots of anger and hated for me as if she is cursing me!!!

And now i feel my doubts are correct .
But in both their line of family, both my mother & father’s side, there are people who have married , though they do not earn anything and they r married too and having children. Even in many families these things happen then why my parents are doing these to me??
3)My brother in law is actually a devil in disguise. In the name of helping me he is pulling the strings behind the curtains & whatever my manager is doing actually my b.i.l. is behind that!!
4)I am pursuing a distance MBA but due to these anxieties I can’t study. Also I dont want to join anymore in the sales profession anywhere else or any other sales industry at all.
Also, if he is in such a good position why did he not allow me to study more and then give me job?
How can I amke new friends at this age who can help me like a bosom friend?
Why this is happening to me?
I know all these sounds strange but it’s 100% true.
I also have no friends or girlfriends to share my sorrow with.
So under such and various other problems ,should I think of continuing this job anymore?
Please advice me generously.
10 pts for the best answerer.
Thanks in advance.